Thande Iwenkosi Ngwenja
I've started gathering Neighbourhood Heroes stories from students
here in Zimbabwe. Of course I've spoken to students at Sihlengeni
High School where I have been working on a Rotary project to install
new computer and science labs.
By the way I just today learned the difference between a secondary
school and a high school. A secondary school only teaches to Fourth
Form, a high school teaches Sixth Form students preparing them for
college or university.
Next term Sihlengeni Secondary School will become a high school
thanks in large part to the improvements we have made over the past
two years. Those in Nanaimo who contributed to these efforts should
be very pleased with the results we have achieved.
I've also been invited to speak to several classes at the Christian
Brothers College in Bulawayo. This is a private boarding school that
attracts well to do boys of all races, a very interesting group of
young men.
It will be exciting to compare the stories written by these "Big City
Boys" with Sihlengeni's "Country Boys".
You'll be able to read these stories on our Neighbourhood Heroes web
site when I receive them. I'll let you know when they
arrive.
Today I drove out to visit Tebogo Mpofu, the student I and several
friends are sponsoring at Usher Institute, a Salvation Army girls
boarding school about 50 kilometres outside Bulawayo. Four or five
classes gathered in the church and showed great interest in the
Neighbourhood Heroes project. I'm sure their stories will be most
interesting as well.
It's my theory that Neighbourhood Heroes are pretty much the same all
over the world . the same kind of love and support being offered to
themselves and others. The interesting thing will be to see how that
love and support is expressed in different cultures.
The first story I received was from my friend Thandi Ngwenja's
younger sister, Thande Iwenkosi Ngwenja, a seventeen year old Upper 6
student at Iz Majo High School here in Bulawayo.
Here is her story.
The hero in my life, one who has made a lasting impression with her
teachings, commandeered respect and adulation with her actions, and
utmost respect and love with her selflessness, is my mom.
She has made me what I am today. She has strained, persevered,
strived and struggled, not only for me but for every one of her
relatives and children.
I find it befitting to term her a hero for she is a cut above all I
have seen so far.
When she was younger, my mom did not work in any white collar job
because in Africa then women were not given a chance to reach toward
greater heights. She sold vegetables at one time and grew them in the
garden for us to eat and have clothes, and she sold clothes for us to
get school fees, uniforms, and stationary. Never once did I hear her
complain.
In all this she took time to take us to church, soothed our hurts,
and answered our questions about life.
She taught herself at the same time working towards her education.
She went up to a diploma in education and managed to get us all
through school.
My mom taught me to be selfless, to think of others before myself as
she did, to persevere no matter how tough the going gets, and that in
the end one will realize the fruits of that patience. She also taught
me that to love others besides yourself helps you find peace with
yourself.
Mummy I thank God for you. You are a gem. I only hope the Lord will
keep me and help me to give back what you had to forgo to make me
what I am today. I love you and thank you so very much. God bless you.
Thande Iwenkosi Ngwenja
If you would like to add your support, you can send a cheque made out to "Rotary Club of Nanaimo North (Zimbabwe)". The address is PO Box 223, Nanaimo, B.C., V9R 5K9. They will forward the money to our project account in Zimbabwe.
To nominate a Neighbourhood Hero or to read old columns, go to www.nhero.org.